Masculinity

I think that the American Culutre has put pressure on men to be tough.  Men are supposed to be angry, violent, good fighters, not cry and a number of other things.  I think that this is a very wrong vision of what a  real man is.  It is harder to be mentally tough than physically.  A man should be smart.  They should be able to take care of themselves and there family.  A man should be independent and a role model, not a loose cannon.